Problem is, there are some members of our family that most people try not to get involved with. But they're old and need help with things, so I volunteered to check on them every now and then, ask if they need anything. But recently it's been getting harder and harder... I realize that I might've been too eager to lend a hand, because now they not only ask for way too much attention, but also try to influence my worldview and get me to join their church, etc. Basically it's getting awkward.